This especially sucks, because Borgata is supposed to be super gay friendly. I like their shiny building, and I have tickets to a concert there in September. I expected better. Clearly, that was naive. These women have repeatedly been praised for their looks not just in spite of their size, but often because of it. Truthfully, I think this policy doubles as a sneaky form of age discrimination.
Atlas Food's Jenny Westerman is a manager and a host who, in her own words, "kind of does it all. It depends on the clientele, of course. But the eye candy thing is a factor. People want to be stimulated when they go out, and they like to be in an attractive atmosphere.
Was she charming, attractive, friendly, and flirty? Perhaps she seemed interested in you? Asking out a server is always risky, because it blurs what is normally a straightforward business interaction.