You are polite and kind, sweet and caring. Annoying how guys are shit at demeaning u during sex but great at it in real life. When the wasband and I were going in for marriage counselling, the therapist asked, "Has he ever hit you? So what gives? Why do men simply opt out of power dynamics in bed? Is it laziness?
Dominant or Submissive? Paradox of Power in Sexual Relations | Psychology Today
Most women want a strong man that knows how to be dominant in bed. They want Hugh Jackman as Wolverine. They want every guy in Magic Mike. They want someone who can fight off a bear while not spilling his beer. They want a guy who knows the difference between an automatic rifle and a shotgun and knows how to use both to defend their home. These traits trickle into the bedroom, too.
How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom Even If You’re Nervous/Unconfident
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. Evolution of the Self.
One night, after too many whiskey sours, the conversation among a group of my closest friends and I turned to sex. We're not a judge-y group, nor are we bashful when it comes to providing the intimate details of our sex lives. And, yet, when one of my friends revealed that she falls off the orgasmic cliff when her boyfriend calls her a "whore" just as she's about to come, she lowered her eyelids to the table.