Like: If there are two holes in your vagina your urethra and your vaginal canal , which hole does sex happen in? And what about all this "popping the cherry" stuff I've heard about? And WTF is a hymen?! Let's start off by answering that last question. Your hymen is a majorly misunderstood part of your body — many people think being a virgin is defined by how open your hymen is.
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The hymen is a thin membrane covering the vaginal opening. It consists of a connective tissue as well as muscle fibers with blood vessels and nerve endings. The hymen is easy to detect. It usually lies no further than 0.
Having sex for the first time isn't all that we expected it to be. It is the biggest emotional roller-coaster ride we ever went on. You can plan and plan until you can't plan no more, but things never run as smoothly as we hoped for.
The concept of female "virginity" has a complicated history, and has often been incorrectly linked to breaking the hymen. Bleeding after intercourse was thought to be proof of an unbroken hymen, and thus, proof that a woman had not had sex before. The reality, however, is that the state of your hymen has nothing to do with sexual activity.